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How to get over an ex

How to get over an ex - If You Can't Get Over Ex Boyfriend, What Can You Do?

I'm always asked, "What can I do after break up while I'm still in love with him?" My answer has always been this, what do you want to do?

I know that is not the answer you've expected but it's strange that someone you used to love so much, the one you gave everything, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, "love is pain" there is always a price for it. It is easy when you are not in pain to say love is pain but when you are in love with someone who can't love you back it's like been in hell.

Can you imagine all that touch... may be those flowers... all that "I love you"... those candles and romances, gone in a thin air, that's bad isn't it?

What can you do?

Calling your ex boyfriend is not the best advice. Asking for forgiveness to go back is even worse. What can you do?

First you have to understand that love is nothing but a state of mind, it's how you feel about the other person. When you change that feeling, there is no love. Do you understand?

Let me explain it to you for a minute,

Just think about it, before you met your ex boyfriend, you didn't feel anything about him. Even if I described him to you it wouldn't make you feel the way you do now. Do you know why?

Because when you are in relationship with someone you build emotional responses, which are conditioned, in your neurology. The more you stay together (romantic way) the more you hardwire those neuron pathways in your brain and that means you build more emotion (love)

So when you breakup with ex boyfriend there is a strong built up emotional attachment that makes you feel they way you do now. If there is no way of getting back together then there is a big problem in a way you process your thoughts. This is the reason you can't do your work properly. You become self-couscous about your looks because of emotional imbalance. This affects how you do activities and your over all behaviors.

The only way to get over this is to change the way you handle these emotions. You have to change how you feel about your ex boyfriend.

Let me explain...

Take any book you can find around, hold it while looking at the front cover then turn it around and then look at it from the back, then from the sides. You will find that, its appearance look different depending on which side you are looking at. The book is the same but the way you look at it, changes.

Now, I'm not trying to compare your ex boyfriend with the book. The point I want to make here is this, when you change the way you feel about your ex boyfriend, break up will not affects you.

How can you do that?

The good news is there is a technology to help you get over your ex boyfriend quickly. This technology will get you over him completely, you will be happier than you can imagine.